A normal girl child born in 1985 always dreamt to grow up soon and be with all the ladies fashion and look beautiful. Schooldays almost went on fine as a simple girl till class 8th; class 9th and 10th were most mischievous days in school, lots of scoldings, punishment, warnings, complaints and so on....In class 11th(+2, 1st year as we mention here at my state Odisha, when study in colleges under state govt) something strange went on in life that turned the mischiveous girl as a Tom boy. Gutkha,road-side tea stalls, those black bands at wrist, Shirts-Trousers/Jeans-t shirts, Black cap, a little short knife, lighter in pocket, passing comments to girls, whislte, fights on road, terrorising guys who tease other known girls....everything seems to be a crystal clear flash back infront of eyes when mind come up with a short thought on the same. Then enters a LOVE in life {"Prem"-As the name suggest love.} A man from fashion world, completely contracdictory to an out-of-fashion tomboy definitely had something good and attractive that made her somewhat think like a girl and fall in love with him. After about 9 months the girl proposed Prem and someway or the other he accepted after knowing everything about her way and life style. But its true even, life style,way of thinking everything differed between the both. Girl was tough enough with out-look, but had a simple way of living and fun. On contradictory to this, the boy was a party-guy, pub-disco loving, being from world of fashion, a state-level model, a highly matured personality, completely dashing guy to be tagged as. But its true he never wanted the girl to change her Boyish attitude, get-up and personality; may be because he never wanted to change his love and be in love with her, may be because he was quite aware about the inner heart being a simple one or may be because he wanted his lady love to stay aways from much of make-ups,fashion, style and all those ladies talks to crack down his mind evrytime. Apart from their love, the girl was with her usual manly attitude, acts, behaviour, talks everything. So something that kept the girl bonded with some kind of girlish heart, was LOVE. After being in a relation for more than 6 years both married and settled down at Delhi. The place was familiar to Prem, but was so new and different for the girl. Lost her friends, local area dominancy, family care..What left with her was her teenage "Love" cum present husband. Someone who thought to stay like a boy everytime,had to change herself in a greater way when around in-laws; but with husband it was fine enough to stay as the same tomboy as he never complaint on the way of get-up and out-look. You are set free for everything, but if you are a girl there come some limitation and boundary for you this way or the other definitely. Something great happend after 3 years of marraige and that is what the couple have added a new life, a little baby to their world. A small little girl, born on 6th july 2011 to them. These all days after marraige especialy made the girl think on a thought she use to get in her childhood, dream she use to think of being like a grown-up woman and all those every girl think off during her early days to have a husband, a child, serve the best to her family and all those general feelings. A point to make out here is " A girl can never be equal to a boy however fast the world grow...." Never know what and how the track will progress further, but for the time being its all may be said:- "Tomboy-Love-Complete woman".
ELECTRA:------Love to my husband and baby.
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